Uyajola 99: Asanda chooses peace over chaos

There’s nothing as painful as thinking you’re the only lover in your boyfriend’s life, then finding out publicly that you’re not.


The main chick

We’ve seen a trend about all the cheaters that appear on Uyajola 99. The main reason they get caught out is because of their change in behaviour.

This change raises red flags for their significant other who then ends up seeking the services of Jub Jub and the Uyajola 99 crew. Amanda’s story is no different.

The lady from Umthatha sought out Jub Jub’s services because her boyfriend was acting out of character. And without wasting any time, Jub Jub was on the case.

Busted with sugar mama

Before anything could be said or explained, the cheater, Siphosethu, is caught in bed with his sugar mama, Thobeka.

Asanda is flabbergasted that Siphosethu is cheating with a much older woman. On the other hand, Thobeka is convinced that she is the main girlfriend in this scenario. “He loves me. You won’t have him,” says Thobeka.

Her confidence is commendable even though Siphosethu keeps telling her to be quiet as he profusely apologises to Asanda.

By now, Asanda has checked out and wants nothing to do with Siphosethu. She tells him he can continue with the granny, although to be fair, Thobeka doesn’t look that old. She looks like a middle-aged lady, yes, but calling her a granny is taking it a bit too far.

I’m not your mom

Whilst Siphosethu continues to plead for forgiveness, Thobeka is more than ready for a fight. She tries everything to ridicule Asanda and call her all sorts of names. She is determined to keep Siphosethu all to herself but the guy isn’t having it.

“Thobeka, can you please keep quiet,” says a frustrated Siphosethu.

Ever the instigator, Jub Jub asks “So what are you doing with this old lady?”

Siphosethu admits that it’s a mistake while Thobeka shouts in the background, reprimanding Jub Jub for calling her an old lady. It’s a cringe-worthy scene but you just can’t help laughing.

“I’m not old, he’s my man. You say I’m old but he loves me … I didn’t put him in diapers,” says Thobeka.

Asanda doesn’t want him anymore

Asanda made it clear that she won’t forgive him and the poor lady was so peaceful about the whole situation.

This won her favour on Twitter as people praised her calm demeanour. Asanda really chose peace, unlike the many other women in the show who end up fighting the side-chick.

Asanda makes it clear that she wants nothing from Siphosethu and wishes him and Thobeka a nice life.

For the first time in weeks, we meet a woman who is not teary about being cheated on. Good for you, Asanda.

Watch all the cheating drama unfold on Uyajola 99 S6 now streaming on DStv online.