We can always choose not to be in a situation where we are not able to make choices that stir us in a direction that is more desirable for us. And because a lot of people pay attention when they are tuned in to their favourite reality show, they saw something that needed to be pointed out.

MaKhumalo can also be described as a woman who understands what it means to be a valuable tool in a family structure such as the one she is part of.

 

 

 

Now, it is quite interesting that there are people who think that Mseleku emotionally blackmails MaKhumalo because this is not the first time that this has been mentioned. Mseleku has a way with words and this has, somehow made it easy for him to sound genuine even when he is not.

Mseleku wants what he wants and he is bound to use emotional blackmail to obtain what he wants and we all know that he wants more children, particularly boys. As for MaKhumalo, she feels bad for not being able to give her husband what he wants, but there is really nothing she can do.

And there is really no intention to paint Mseleku as the bad guy because he is not, even though people think he is. However, he can sometimes cross the line, it is almost as if he made a conscious effort not to show MaKhumalo that he is also as worried as she is regarding her inability to have children.

Maybe he thought that, if he does not make the whole thing seem like a big deal, then MaKhumalo would not feel like she has a problem.

But the truth is that, it is a big deal and Mseleku can never do anything about the fact that MaKhumalo is sometimes worried about how he feels.

Mseleku’s actions remind MaKhumalo that there is that one important thing that she could not give him, since the whole thing about the Khumalo girlfriend started, it has been a constant reminder to MaKhumalo that, the reason why there is another woman who is going to be introduced is because of her. But, is it really because of MaKhumalo?

We cannot be too sure that if MaKhumalo never had the problem, Mseleku would not still go out and find another woman to make a fifth wife. Because he is a polygamist, he would probably still want another wife, but it would be unfair for people to call Mseleku a bad husband who loves women when we are not sure of everything that led to the decision he made.

Not everything is as it seems, there is still lot that happens when the cameras are off, so we can never say we know what is really going on, we can only make assumptions.