Actress Nomsa Buthelezi says her heart bleeds for the femicide pandemic that South African women face. With the murders of several women dominating headlines over the last two weeks, told TshisaLIVE that many in the LGBTIQ+ community were targeted because of their sexuality. She recounted her own experience of abuse, adding that women in SA feared for their lives every day.When I came out of the closet, many men were against me. They wanted to know why I was dating women,” she said. There’s a guy that I grew up with who told me people were talking about my sexuality. They said if their mentor was still alive, he would have insulted the lesbian out of me and I would be straight again. My heart is still bleeding from that incident. They never said sorry.”

Sis encouraged women to report abuse to the police and to expose their abusers. She recalled another incident when a men threw a bottle at her leg, leaving her bleeding and angry. She took him to the police station to be arrested.Nomsa acknowledged that not every woman gets the opportunity to bring their abuser to police – and many did not make it out alive. Women must fight when they are facing death. It’s not easy to fight a man, but you can’t die without a fight.

“When I dragged the guy who assaulted me to the police station, it was not a joke. The police had no choice but to arrest him because I brought him myself and I instructed the police to arrest him immediately.

Nomsa encouraged South African women, especially celebrities, to speak out and reveal any abusers in their lives. She said by doing so they will be saving many women that are following them on social media.

Manaka Ranaka’s Daughter Has A Bun Baking In Her Oven.Television actress Manaka Ranaka, who portrays the role of Lucy Diale on Generations The Legacy, will soon have a bundle of joy calling her gogo. This is after her daughter Kgomotso has a bun baking in her oven.Manaka took to Instagram to reveal the exciting news and said you can now call her a granny if you want. The actress is clearly grateful for the gift of life, and she cannot wait to fulfill her granny duties.Many even joked and said she will get to experience how real it is to be a granny because, on screen, she can be tough to Lesedi played by Luyanda Mzazi, who has a daughter on the show.Many even joked and said she is going to get to experience how real it’s to be a granny because, on screen, she will be tough to Lesedi played by Luyanda Mzazi, who features a daughter on the show. Congratulations Manaka!

>AKA revealed how Reebok allegedly did not pay him any money or royalties for the collaboration on the custom-made sneaker. The TL went on to discuss what a big moemish the move was by AKA, but Sizwe was not going to let any AKA insults fly.

When one tweep called AKA a “fraud”, Sizwe stepped in to defend him. The media personality turned entrepreneur explained that AKA was an amazing artist but admitted that the rapper could have done better in handling his earnings properly.

“He’s not a fraud, he’s one of the most talented musicians SA has ever seen, but he’s an awful business person and his story regarding his career earnings and what’s due to him is tragic,” he said.

He’s not a fraud, he’s one of the most talented musicians SA has ever seen but he’s an awful business person & his story regarding his career earnings & what’s due to him is tragic.

They’ve been married so long they finish each other’s sentences. After four decades together, veteran actor Jerry Mofokeng wa Makhetha and his wife, Claudine, are still absolutely smitten with each other.We catch up with the couple at our Auckland Park offices. Jerry (63) tucks into a fruit salad while Claudine (62) gets her makeup done but still, they banter with each other. He was 22 years old when he met her and marriage was the furthest thing from his mind because he was recovering from a broken heart. The girl he was in love with at the time had been sent to boarding school in the North West and Jerry learnt that she had run away with a teacher. “I was shattered,” Jerry tells us.

“I went to God and He and I had a frank conversation where I set down my terms. I knew if He had taken her away from me then surely He had something better in store for me. “In my prayer I told God women are heartbreakers and that I did not want a replacement or a substitute. I vowed to only revisit the idea of a relationship the following year.” But fate had other plans.

GETTING THE GIRL

Two months after his chat with God, Jerry met Claudine. “I was taking one of my mentees home when I saw his sister,” he recalls. “I had two problems with my attrac­tion to her. First, I did not believe in love at first sight. There was no way I could be in love with someone I had just met!

The other problem I had was that I had a covenant with God to not be in a relationship until the following year.” Yet each time he saw her, his feelings grew. Then he started pursuing her. Claudine rolls her eyes as she recalls she paid her suitor no mind. “I thought he was just another chancer,” she giggles.He asked her out telling her he had prayed about it. Claudine said she also needed time to pray because she was not certain about his intentions. Then she started having strange dreams in which he would appear and save her, she says.

“I asked my mom what these dreams meant, and she asked what my relationship with this man was. I told her he’d proposed we be in a relationship and she said the dreams meant he was the one. She said my grandmother had similar dreams before she got married,” Claudine says.

“Then one morning in December I woke up missing him with every fibre of my being. I couldn’t breathe properly until I phoned him.” Jerry was at a youth camp and was only due to return in January. “While I was there, I got a call that changed my life,” he recalls.

She phoned and said four words I have never forgotten.” When we ask what Claudine said, he leaps out of his chair with excitement. “Yhoo! She said, ‘I am missing you’. “Man, I could not wait to get back home,” he says with a broad smile. They started dating in January 1979 and nine months later, Jerry sent his family to ask for her hand in marriage.

KEEPING THE LOVE

The loved-up couple wed on a beautiful day in June 1980 and the secret to their long-lasting marriage is faith, they say. “God is the main ingredient,” Claudine says. “But it is also very important to study your partner and meet their needs.

“If it does not hurt you in any way, indulge them because it makes them happy. I am a homebody who enjoys reading and he likes to be outdoors. “Sometimes I agree to go to nature reserves. While there, I catch up on reading while he wakes up at the crack of dawn to watch lions drinking water.”

Making compromises in your relationship doesn’t mean you’re giving away your power, she adds. “And being a feminist does not mean being anti-male. You are two very different people from different backgrounds. [Learn to] forgive,” she says.

Television actress Manaka Ranaka, who portrays the role of Lucy Diale on Generations The Legacy, will soon have a bundle of joy calling her gogo. This is after her daughter Kgomotso has a bun baking in her oven.Manaka took to Instagram to reveal the exciting news and said you can now call her a granny if you want. The actress is clearly grateful for the gift of life, and she cannot wait to fulfil her granny duties.