It’s no secret that Zulu culture can be at times trying, as a Zulu woman I know this. But in this weeks episode of Uthando Nes’thembu we got to see how far gone the husband of the show truly is. He took his wives to visit the King and it was NOT a fruitful visit.

MaKhumalo needs to stand up for herself against her husband
It started off on a sour note in my opinion. We were being reminded for the millionth time that MaKhumalo can’t have children. It feels like every week it’s the same story and we have to just digest it. I don’t know how she drags herself through the trenches for that man without ever having any regard for herself.

I’m starting to think it’s a lack of self respect. Don’t get me wrong, I love MaKhumalo, but when does she start loving herself just a little bit more than she loves that man? When? Cause it is humiliating to bring up a womans reproductive system this many times on national television.

Daughters are not important to Mseleku

I felt furious, listening to the man with seven girl children discuss the importance of three boys. It made me really reflect on how much patriarchy is imbedded deeply in Zulu culture. You can’t be a woman without first humbling yourself unnecessarily for the men in your life. But they never have to respect you, they can choose and Musa has chosen to NOT respect his daughters.

Imagine watching this show as a Mseleku child and hearing your father declare that households without sons are useless? What an utterly bizarre and untrue thing to say. Women are heads of homes in South Africa, seamlessly so without the assistance of men. I don’t know how many men can say the same without women involved.

Final thoughts
Mseleku tried to pretend like his issue wasn’t with the son-less houses but it was. My problem with this mindset is that it places the girls in a position of powerlessness. He is essence saying that girl children are placeholders until their boy counterparts are born.

It is so hard already to be a woman in South Africa dealing with Gender Based Violence and misogyny. Our fathers need to be our safe place but if even they disregard us, how will we ever see men anything other than perpetrators?

He does all this and then we never see him interact with said children. It’s odd. Father of the year is for fathers who are there.

Millicent Mashile is a South African voice over artist ,television presenter, MC ,radio presenter and content creator.She is famously known as the co host on One Gospel show called Alpha Youth together with her team sister Inno Sadiki.She was born on the 30 January 1988.

 

 

 

 
The talented actress was raised by her grandmother as their mother died when the twins were only four year old.

The talented actress holds a BA Honours in Motion Picture Medium from AFDA. She is currently married to her lovely husband Pontsho Mashile and the couple were blessed with twin boys.Their names are Kamogelo and Karollo.

Today the 25th of November 2021 Millicent received her bundle of joy, she is blessed with a lovely daughter. She went to her facebook account posting the beautiful pictures of her newborn while lying on hospital bed.

She posted the picture with caption ” Kganya “God’s light” has come upon us 25.11.2021 @ kganya Mashile “.

Connie Ferguson is a South African media personality and she is also a great business lady and there is no doubt about that.

 

 

 

 

 

She has been in the industry for more than 20 years now and she has grown rapidly ever since.

A lot of people know her as Karabo Moroka from generations and her character was loved by so many people.

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She started her own production company alongside her late husband Shona Ferguson and it has produced a lot of great telenovelas such as Igazi, the queen, Rockville, and many other ones.

Connie is the elder sister to Lerato who is her little sister and they love each other so much and they always look out for each other.

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Lerato and Connie no doubt love being fit and they always share their videos working out and also what they eat as well.

They definitely took it from their father who is also very fit.

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When it comes to finer things in life, Cassper Nyovest is one of those who goes all out for himself. The South African artist is undoubtedly living the life of his dreams. Cassper is also a businessman who’s working towards being Mzansi’s billionaire.

The rapper took a social media to flaunt his new diamond chain which he says costed him 70k in British pounds, which makes it R1.4 million in South African Rands. He shared a video of the chain with the caption “Early birthday gift. Dropped 70,000 pounds, not rand. It’s been a good year!”Link for video

Cassper also shared details of his birthday celebration on the 18 of December ,which will be located at Soweto.

Many would say Casper is bragging about his wealth, but he once mentioned that he posts so that we can be inspired and also because he works hard. ” I work hard man, i work very hard because I like nice things and I have a family to provide for” he wrote.?s=19

Kgaogelo Monama is a popular known South African actress, singer and dancer. She is ambitious and talented woman with massive thoughts on how to make her life better. She is best known for her starring role in DiepCity telenovela drama series on Mzansi Magic weekdays as Lerato, Mgedeza’s nephew on-screen.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
She has become one of the Mzanzi’s favorites after her role in the show and she is making waves. She has won the hearts of many people through her good acting skills and she is doing impressive work. She is a true definition of brains and beauty and she has a sense of humour and personality. Kgaogelo Monama played her first role on Television as Sarafina on e.tv soapie Scandal and has appeared on other popular television shows such as Z’bondiwe, Thandeka’s Diary and Soul City. Fans love her role and are excited to see what else she will do in the future. Kgaogelo Monama was born on May 11, on 1990 in Vosloorus, Gauteng.

1. Kgaogelo Monama holds a B-Tech degree in theater and filmmaking from the University Of Tshwane Institute Of Technology.

2. Kgaogelo Monama is also a professional cabaret dancer and singer.

3. Kgaogelo Monama has appeared in numerous theatrical productions, including Tselane and The Giant, Malibomgwe Igama Lamakhosikaz, Exile, She Bellows and Sophia Town.

4. Kgaogelo Monama is rumored to be dating KZN-born actor called Sabelo Ernest Hadebe.

Kgaogelo Monama is an actor that also appears to the well known soapie from Mzansi Magic called Diepciy and they are making action on the show. Let have a look at her lovely photos: