In each episode of #RHODurban we kearn new things about the Mseleku’s family. The #RHODurban fans are accusing Musa of using Thobile to get tenders and business connections from the ladies’partners. Fans and followers are starting to think that Thobile’s personality revolves around her husband and marriage. The only time we ever see her joyous is when she is with her husband. On the Introduction, Thobile says her marriage doesn’t define her, yet she only blooms when the topic is about Isthembu. S3, she shouldn’t come back because she looks lost, cold and fans are bored.

Thobile is those people that would do something to you in secret and then act like she doesn’t have a problem with you to people. Now she is stuck there being crazy alone. Thobile should’ve taken the opportunity to use this platform to brand herself and not continue with the “ 3rd wife to a polygamist”. She only comes alive when her marriage and Musa are discussed. Thobile needs to understand the brief of the show it is about the wives and not the”Real husband’s of Durban”. We need a break from Mseleku. Thobile needs to learn a thing or two from these women and leave Mseleku.

 

 

 

She will not benefit as long as Musa keeps on using her to get wives and girlfriends. Whereas he doesn’t wanna pay for IVF and other things to help Thobile conceive, because it’s expensive and not worth it, knowing very well that Thobile needs it.

It’s like her life revolves around musa and their polygamy. It’s so sad that she can’t just be herself as Thobile. Even Sorisha said it and it was not good. Thobile only comes alive when Musa is around or when they’re discussing polygamy, this is sad actually. She has allowed her marriage to define her so much. She literally has no life outside her marriage. I don’t think we will ever get to know the real her.

Musa wants connection with Sorisha’s husband maybe the fame. I hate to admit it but this show is truly not for them. Can we talk about Sorisha’s home that woman is living a beautiful life and i like that she is down to earth (based on how we see on the show) she is living large. That’s why you’ll never find her in negativity or bullying. She’s genuinely happy and it shows.

Right and in a way it seems like he is actually overpowering Thobile’s appearance whenever they appear together. Fans are now curious to who is part of the RHOD exactly… Musa or Thobile? Musa must leave these females. Even Jojo’s appeared a few times and that was it… we see musa on evry episode. To be honest, I personally don’t think Thobile is a great fit to the show. The “isthembu’ topic needs to pop up for her to be interactive on the show.