Musa Mseleku talks about that he is using a modern way of approach in his desire of marrying a fifth wife by engaging with his wives in his decision making.

The polygamist Musa Mseleku hinted on the fifth season of Uthando Nes’thembu that the is a woman he is seeing apart from his wives and that he was considering to marry her to be his fifth wife.

However, even though it is common and expected for a polygamist to take many wives in his life, Musa Mseleku’s wives seem to against his decision of bringing a fifth wife, because it is said he had promised he would not marry again.

 

 

 

According to the reporters the polygamist and Tv star said that his wives have not yet given him a go ahead to bring another wife. However he is not giving in yet and says he will continue trying to persuade them until they all agree.

He also mentioned that he has called several meetings both individually and collectively.

Musa says that he does not want any of his wives to leave him because of him taking a fifth wife which is why he wants to try different ways to persuade them until they all accept and be happy with his decision.

He told the news reporters that in the olden days he was actually not supposed to be asking his wives for a go ahead. But he is doing a modern way by getting his wives involved in his decision. However, in the olden days he was just supposed to be telling them he is taking another wife instead of asking.

In the olden days he was just supposed to communicate with the first wife and she was the one to go tell the other wives but in the modern day all the wives have to treated equally, so which is why he is engaging with all of them in this decision making, he said.

The reality television star shared that he it was always his desire to have a big family. And even though he did not know much about a polygamous marriage but he was determined to make his dream come true.

Musa Mseleku also shared with the reporters that at the beginning he was not confident that he will succeed but now he can stand on top of the mountain and say yes he has made it and it has been over 20 years living it.