Happy birthday 🎂🎉 to Lady Zamar.

Lady Zamar has been castigated, even by other women, for reporting rape. Lady Zamar has been castigated, even by other women, for reporting rape.
Image: Lady Zamar/ Instagram

This past weekend, a story broke about house music sensation Lady Zamar opening a rape case against musician ex-boyfriend Sjava.

Although the case was opened last November, media only got wind of it recently. The response to Lady Zamar’s allegations was ربما تحتوي الصورة على: ‏‏شخص واحد‏، ‏‏نشاطات في أماكن مفتوحة‏‏‏devastating, albeit not shocking. Multitudes of social media users launched attacks on the young woman, accusing her of being an attention-seeker and being hell-bent on destroying the career of the BET-award winning Sjava.ربما تحتوي الصورة على: ‏‏شخص واحد‏، ‏‏وقوف‏‏‏

I wish I could claim to be shocked by this response – but I am not. The script is so familiar that had the public’s response deviated from it, had people rallied behind Lady Zamar, I would have been utterly stunned.

I remember when sexual abuse allegations against Bill Cosby came out, multitudes of people rallied behind him, contending that he was a victim of a smear campaign by a white America that was deeply invested in destroying black men.