As we get to see everything unfold in the latest episode of this controversial show, we get to understand that there is a possibility that the viewers are confused about what it really means to be a traditional healer.
There is so much that is being questioned and there is really no way that one can explain what the meaning of what Tumi did.
For some reason, it has to be accepted that Tumi has introduced another man in her marriage because this is what the ancestors need from her.
A lot of people did not think that this would actually happen, the show is far from being a scripted show and that is what is concerning because some people are not sure what to think about traditional healers or Sangomas like Tumi.
The reactions paint the picture quite clearly, in the process of pleasing her ancestors, Tumi is hurting a man who has loved and supported her when she was still trying to figure things out.
In the latest episode, we got to see a different side to Monde, he somewhat felt the need to show that he still does not agree with this new arrangement, but he was still willing to give Tumi a chance to be clear on what she is really going to do.
As for Tumi, she has concluded that she is taking Sbu as her new husband and there is that sense of rush, it is almost as if things have to be done before any of the two men change their minds.
Sbu, who is the new guy, he seems to be way more understanding as far as what Tumi needs and this could be because he has no choice, that is the only way that he can be with Tumi.
And it got revealed that Sbu and Tumi are actually high school sweethearts, it is really strange that this guy who had to be the second husband is Tumi’s first love.
All of this does not really seem like anything that has to do with ancestors, Tumi is probably not as satisfied as she wants to be in her current marriage, hence she decided to revive what she had with Sbu.
One could say that Monde has every reason to just call it quits and leave, but that might not be what he intends to do.
Instead, during the episode, he asked Tumi how she would feel if he were to bring a woman in their home and she said that this would never happen, which is unfortunate because it seems like Tumi is the one calling the shots.