Mzansi have reacted to the pictures of parents who went to graveyard to celebrate their late son’s birthday of their late son at the graveyard. According the source it seems the baby died when they were preparing the birthday party for him but they continued after the burial becouse they already paid everything cake balloon and all stuff. This is sad, it has only been just over a month I’m sure they had already ordered the cake. Mzansi people react to the pictures of a family celebrating the birthday of their late member at his graveyard.
 

 

 

 

The family have lost their child a month ago and they already prepare for for celebration. Many people were left heartbroken by these pictures of this family because they could feel the pain of these parents. I can’t believe people are saying a family who lost a child a month ago need to “move on”… Ya no, y’all better be grateful that you’ve never experienced some tragedies. Coz then you wouldn’t be on the Internet policing how strangers grieve. His first birthday without being present and they decided to visit his grave. I don’t see any problems. As a parent I would do the same. Not bringing cakes and food but it’s to visit his grave

In the picture is shows the tombstone that it is written “In loving the memory of Sphelele (Punk). Born: 09-11-2018 and Died: 03-10-2021” stated on the Tom stone. “Other side of life” said a shattered influancer.. It must have been one of hardest moment for the parents and also to the whole family.

The loss of a child is pain that is unimaginable. It is no secret that people react differently to the passing of a family member and some people are not strong as others, and it cost them time to heal.How people cope is up to them. When I was young, I went to birthday parties for a child that didn’t even live see her first birthday. Each year her mom had those parties we all understood ukuthi the baby is no more and that this was her moms way of grieving. It took years for her to stop the parties and to let go of the baby clothes. Grief has no formula, it has no timeline. We can say whatever we want us people but we will never truly understand. What we good at is to treat the situation with respect and empathy.

Twitter users hopped into the comment section to share their thoughts about this. May people were feeling sorry for these parents who clearly haven’t healed “They need to heal” said a Twitter user. Some Twitter users were saying that these parents needs help to heal “They need counseling” said a Twitter user.