Do you Valentine’s Day?

I’m hearing more and more from couples who are over the corporate-push and forced-feeling of the holiday. Ring true for you?

I also know couples who love the holiday. They share joy and connection over cards, flowers and chocolates—and if this is what works for you—that is awesome! I know I’m not one to turn down fresh flowers and a romantic meal.

Whether you are planning on celebrating Valentine’s Day this weekend or not, and whether you have been with your honey 30 days or 30 years, I’m guessing it’s important to you to feel loved by your partner.

Since meeting my husband over a decade ago, working closely with couples as a counselor for more than half that time, and studying with some of the leading relationship experts, I know it’s the little moments we show our love that counts.

Which is why I’ve compiled this list of 50+ ways you can show your love throughout the year! You can follow this list and practice the tips daily, or pick out some of your favorites. Even more fun—think of some of your own—and don’t forget to add them in the comments.

50+ Ways to Show & Celebrate Your Love All Year Long

Spend meaningful time together—these activities increase closeness and connection:

Put on “your song” and dance in the living room.
Give each other massages.
Gaze into each others’ eyes for 2 minutes…5 minutes…and notice what happens.
Hold hands.
Visit the place you met.
Visit the place you were married.
Change up the bedroom routine—initiate sex in the morning or afternoon.
Have a picnic at the park.
Get takeout and have a picnic at home by candlelight.
Renew your vows (even in the privacy of your own home).
Take a shower or bath together.
Look at each other’s childhood photos or yearbooks and share stories about the past.
Meet at a bar or restaurant as if it’s your first date.
Unplug for the night – no screen time allowed.
Discuss your fantasies.
Make-out like you used to.
Go on adventures – excitement and experiencing new things gets our pleasure hormones going, reminding us of when we were falling in love.

Plan and go on your dream vacation.
Go to an amusement park and ride rollercoasters together.
Go on a hike and talk about your dreams for the future.
Take a road trip to your favorite place.
Go wine tasting, beer tasting or on a food tour.
Book a hotel in your own town for a night away.
Go camping together.
Share hobbies and activities – this is great bonding time as well as a way to invest in areas of our lives outside of work and responsibilities.

Cook with each other.
Ask them questions and show interest in their favorite hobby.
Take a walk, jog or run together.
Meditate together.
Read a book together and discuss the characters or what you learned.
Take a class together (painting, beer-making, photographer, coding—an interest you can share)
Garden together.
Do something for your partner – gifts, acts of service, and little ways to show you care.

Write them a love letter.
Plant their favorite flower and enjoy the blooms through out the year.
Make their favorite meal.
Make them a playlist of songs that remind you of them.
Clean out their car.
Bring them coffee and/or breakfast in bed.
Leave a message in the steam on the mirror while they are showering.
Pick up their favorite treat when you are grocery shopping.
Send them an email with a sweet note or a link to an article/clip they would enjoy.
Send them a romantic or sexy text.
Give them a hand-made card or gift.
Frame a special photo or memento for their side of the bed.
Draw them a bubble bath complete with candles, wine and soothing music.
Make their favorite dessert on their birthday.
Show up emotionally – show your appreciation and support; it’s important to let our partners know they matter.

Thank them for something simple they did (like taking out the trash or clearing the table).
Ask them to share their hopes and fears; listen with support and encouragement.
Encourage each other to go after your dreams.
Ask them retell their favorite story.
Spend time with and get to know the important people in their lives.
Celebrate what is important to each other – anniversaries, children’s birthdays, promotions at work.
Compliment each other.
Acknowledge when you are wrong and give them a genuine apology.
Forgive them.

Amanda Manku, the actress from ‘Skeem Saam,’ is one of the celebrities to marry, following Nozi Langa, Pebetsi Matlaila, Cornet Mamabolo, and Clement Maosa.

Amanda Manku, a sports celebrity and actress who plays Dr Elizabeth Thobakgale on Skeem Saam, married in 2022.

4 January 2022, the actress revealed conventional wedding photos on her Instagram story.

Seasoned actress Amanda Manku – who plays the role of Dr Elizabeth Thobakgale on Skeem Saam is the sixth star after Nozi Langa, Pebetsi Matlaila, Innocent Sadiki, Cornet Mamabolo, and Clement Maosa from the show to tie the knot.

The actress took to her Instagram story last year (4 January) to share images of her traditional wedding.She asks that everyone refer to her as ‘Mme Mtau’ from now on.

“Can’t wait to share the pictures with you guys. Oh, don’t forget to refer to me as Mme Mtau.”

Manku, who keeps her personal life private, originally uploaded a snapshot of herself and her spouse dressed in traditional attire on her Instagram feed last year (22 December).

“I’ll say it again, I was first in line when God was dishing out good men.”

At this point, it’s unclear who her mystery husband is because she’s still keeping his identity hidden.

Messages of congratulations have been coming in for the actress from industry pals such as Nozi Langa, Lerato Marabe, and Clement Maosa.Amanda Manku had a heartbreaking 2021 as well, as she lost both her mother and grandma in May.

She stated on her social media pages that she had lost her parents, but she did not elaborate.

Manku described 2021 as the most difficult year of her life.

“This is by far the worst and most difficult year of my life,” she said. “As it comes to an end, strength to all those who lost loved ones this year.”

One thing my mother always told me, is to stop posting about my problems but right now, it’s hard. I want to vent! I want to understand!How can I loose my mother and grandmother at the same time? Who will I go to for comfort? For advice?

Other stars who enjoy their married life include, Innocent Sadiki who revealed on Instagram that she and her husband were celebrating 10 years of being married on October 2020. While Cornet Mamabolo, who plays the character of T Bose Maputla, is also married. Back in 2019, he trended on social media when snaps from the actors wedding made rounds.

Pam Andrews, a former Rhythm City actress, just turned 40 and claimed that she now goes to therapy to work on her inner child after realizing she needs validation from others to be happy, as seen in a video posted on social media on Friday, February 9th.

 
Pam Andrews recently shared a video on social media in which she reflected on her younger self. She stated that wherever she went, she made sure to bring attention to herself, and not in a good way.

“I wanted to be the centre of attention wherever I went. I wanted to make sure everyone looked at me, and I made sure everyone was looking at me. I was loud [and] I used to wear these obnoxious outfits,” she said.The former Backstage actress shared that she didn’t have a place or time to display her scandalous outfits, whether it was at a grocery store or not, she made sure to turn heads with her provocative looks.

“I was like, I’m going to wear something so ridiculous and out of this world so that everyone can stare at me. I would look at who’s looking at me and count them… But you know, at the time, that was what was making me happy,” Andrews shared.

The former TV actress revealed that, in retrospect, she realized she needed to cope with her inner child since she needed reinforcement from others to understand her worth.EzoicPam Andrews relocated to London in 2015 but returned home 18 months later, according to TshisaLIVE.Her intended triumphal return home sent her into a tailspin after she encountered multiple closed doors that prevented her from returning to the entertainment world, according to the publication.

Gqeberha: The Empire star actress Zikhona Sodlaka’s goodbye left Lady Du and fans in tears on February 10th.Zikhona was one of the most popular actors in Gqeberha: The Empire. She appeared alongside experienced performers Zandile Msutwana, Thembinkosi Ngcukana, and Anele Matoti.

Many fans regarded Zikhona, who played Bulelwa Mxenge, as the show’s best actor. Zikhona left the show after the first season ended, and she never came back. She also never gave an explanation for her absence.

She left many fans guessing for about two months if it was true that she had left the show, but here is the goodbye. After Zikhona gave her farewell, she left many fans in tears; among them was musician Lady Du, who cried.Sharing on her Instagram, the talented actress was honoured to be part of the show. She also thanked God for giving her the gift of acting.

“What a pleasure, an honour and a privilege it is to do what I do with all my heart.” she started. “Thank you, God, for the Gift I didn’t ask for & for paving my path, Always. Ndi bamba ngazo zozibini, kuni nonke…Kuboooooo!” she finished.Nothando❤️ “Please do come back, I’m so lost in this new Season 😫😫😫 I can’t even bring myself to watch it.”

@Natasha Zungu ( Kheswa ) ❤️ “Kodwa Bullet 😩😭 , it’s so boring without you shame!”

@Rendani Maemu “Felt like I lost a Mother together with Nobomi ever since you left 😢😢”@Norma Masoka “Bullet khabuye girl uyolungisa la ntsomi yenzeka emzini wakho Ndlunkulu😢”

@KAMOHELO RETHABILE MOSIKILI “I just wish that you were coming back, please, we miss you 😢

The Seakamelas are forced to swallow their pride and turn to an adversary for help. Khwezikazi is outraged by Lehasa’s actions.
Tuesday 13 February 2024
Episode 162

Lehasa’s heroic action backfires. John blames Leeto for what happened to Pretty. Solomon has an order for Eunice in light of her ordeal.
Wednesday 14 February 2024
Episode 163
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Thursday 15 February 2024
Episode 164
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Friday 16 February 2024
Episode 165
Alfred has to prove his innocence when news about him buying the principal position breaks. Babeile is livid when he finds out who Lewatle is dating and demands that she breaks up with him. Pretty visits Turf with her man to say her last goodbyes, and some people are disappointed.