A youth group is protesting that paying for Lobola is scam

Many young individuals are being against the payment of the negotiations because many people have found it very not fair also. A lot keeps happening around after the payment that is made. It keeps happening and turning out to be very bad because it is seen with famous people when they are getting divorced and fighting for division of assets.


 

 

 

 

The other thing that makes them say it is a scan, which is a huge claim, is the amount being paid for a person getting married with. The amount being priced to the bride’s representatives is much higher and then, within five years they are divorcing. That is why many people are being against it and some representatives or parents come up with a high amount that should be settled.

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It is not a secret that when you are getting married, but before you do, you have to settle the negotiation amount first. The representatives of the groom will be told that they have taken their child to school and maybe at that moment, she is already working. But what is surprising is that when a parent raises a child, they want their child to live a better life, so taking is their child to school is including marriage.

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As other people are being against it, they don’t want to settle for a huge amount because they have to take care of the person they are getting married to them. When negotiations were made from the beginning, it was a process of officially leaving your parents’ home and telling them you were ancestors you are going to leave them for with your husband. People in current times feel like it is another way of making money, which is why the amount being priced is huge.

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Another reality is that marriages seem to no longer last until death does them apart as they have made their vows at their wedding. A person would come into a marriage without a car, house, or business they are having or either way, but they would want to share it even though they have found everything to be owning anything before the marriage. Negotiations were settled with live stock and is heavily substituted by money.

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It is a huge matter that it is tackled differently when both representatives from families are on the table, coming to a division. At the moment, people have not made it a norm to disagree with the settlement offered from the bride’s family and then stopping the negotiations from reaching the end. It is something that you should not accept if you are not happy with it and which is why it is called negotiations.