I’ve read several books on evolutionary psychology, and the differences between men and women on a biochemical level, psychology in general, the history of romantic relationships and how they’re shaped from an evolutionary standpoint and societal standpoint, etc.

 

 

 

 

 

 

This is all motivated by weak men. Did you know monogamy was actually created for men? This is because back before monogamy, only about 20% of men were able to have children and pass down their genes.

This is because only the strongest, richest, and most attractive men would secure multiple wives to spread their seed and pass down their genes.

But these days even the lazy and broke Sam next door have children with several women.

The concept of monogamy ensured that as close as possible, each man would be “entitled” to one woman, and get their “fair chance” to continue their genes and family name. I am not against monogamy at all.

But women are waking up and seeing that only about 20% of men are even worth considering giving the time of day to. Birth rates (by choice) are down drastically.

If we force women to give birth, more mediocre to weak men will be able to pass down their genes and spread their seed. Even if they don’t desire to be fathers, this is a deep rooted biological desire.

The top 20% of men don’t have to worry about passing down their genes at all, because they know multiple women would be happy to marry them and have their children. It’s not the case for the 80% of average men left over.

This is a war lead by lazy men. Because they know if they knock you up, you’re going to get rid of their baby. You don’t want to pass on his genes, and that is threatening to him, even if he doesn’t want kids. Evolutionarily, you are preventing his genes from being passed down it you get rid of it. This is forced birth, to ensure that these lazy men get a chance to continue their gene pool, hence we have a lot of men who don’t provide for their children.

I am not a man hater. But please ladies. Do not have a man in your life, unless he is making it drastically better. Literally clipping your toenails is a better use of your time, than spending any time with a man that is making your life harder, less happy, etc. Don’t do it.

If you feel a need to feel “loved”, get that bed satisfied through friends and family. That way you’re not putting up with struggle for “love”. Absolutely not. Will never be me.

And don’t lay with them unless you’d be ok with having their baby, and possibly raising it with no help or support from him at all. Including time, effort, money, and them actually loving and caring about the child.

You may think my argument sounds crazy. Yes there have been lots of changes in society in the last 100 years.

Yes men and women are equal in their value as people. But there are lots of things that make us different, and evolution on a biochemical level takes thousands of years.

There’s no way for our biological “wiring” to catch up to all of these societal changes. Everything I’ve stated is facts.

The top percentage of men don’t have to worry about their genes being passed down. They will have a huge variety of women to choose from, who will be happy to have their baby.

uthando nes’thembu and Mnakwethu is the future but women should be respected and protected in the process.