Among South Africa’s entertainment industry, this divorce was one of the most talked about. Enhle and Black Coffee were engaged in 2010, and they were officially married the following year in a traditional ceremony. There was a traditional wedding in 2017, and then the couple divorced the following year due to the husband’s claimed infidelity.
Where has Enhle Mbali been and what has he been doing since the breakup? Let’s check out what she’s been up to on her various social media accounts recently.
As is her custom, she has been devoting more of her time to her family, especially her children.
She has been on TV performing the role for which she is most known. Here’s an excerpt from “A SAFE BET:”
She’s been going out and looking great, too.
The question then becomes, why do people get divorced?
(1) Problems with Interaction and Communcation
According to Cohen, communication is the key to a healthy relationship. Levine points out that a breakdown in communication is at the root of many of the most prevalent reasons for divorce, including fights about money, difficulties in making a commitment, and others on this list.
If you and your partner are unable to communicate well, you risk an unproductive argument and the buildup of bitterness. To paraphrase what Cohen says, “your behavior may not correlate to what your relationship requires.” Due of this, divorce is often the last step on the road to ruin.
Disappointment in Love
Nearly half of recently divorced respondents in a research published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy cited a lack of love or intimacy as the primary reason for their decision to end their marriage. Sometimes a marriage might fail not because of one major betrayal, but because the couple simply grows apart and loses romantic affections for one another. “There’s this underlying sense of alienation that builds over time,” Cohen says.
No closeness or affection is present.
An inactive bedroom life contributes to the “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” realization, which in turn contributes to marital discord. Even if you’ve gone through a rough patch, if you and your partner haven’t been showing each other a lot of physical affection lately, that could lead to serious tension.
It’s Not A Partnership Anymore
People visit Dr. Levine because they feel their spouses do not care about them. She elaborates, “They tell me, ‘Here I am in a relationship and I feel all alone.'” There comes a time in most couples’ lives when they realize that, despite having interesting and full individual lives, they are no longer working as a team with their spouse. This may be because one or both partners have changed their outlook on the future or found that they have little in common with one another. True, being physically apart from a partner and feeling lonely can be enough to justify a divorce.