In each episode of #Dlozlami we kern something new about the ancestral. Thembi has impressed many viewers with the latest episode where she help young lady named Moseamedi seek to connect with her ancestors. Her mother in law dies not want her. She need help finding out where her marriage lies for her and her child.

 

The grandmother does not know that her grandmother is married because she was not informed. The grandmother is surprised that her grandchild is married and in the marriage she is being abused. The lady was raised by her step-father since she does not know her father. The grandmother from her mother side.

There are rumors that on her in-laws there is conflict and they don’t want her. Thembi has revealed that the grandmother s refusing to speak because she did not accept the lobola. Thembi is saying that the lobola was paid to the wrong family since her father did not pay the damage. Thembi is saying that the there is an issued in her marriage and there is dispute between her in-laws.

Thembi also revealed that her mother in law does not want her near her son. Apparently they are using witchcraft on her and there is an animal which is sleeping with her. Her mother in law have chased her out saying that If she does not leave her son she’s going to curse her.

The mother in law hate pedi people become they misbehavior. From the start she does not like pedi while she is a Tsonga. Apparently the mother in law is bewitching the lady so that she does not have a good relationship with her son.

The lady is going with the wrong surname, she is using her step-father surname. The grandmother is afraid to help he because of what might happen. The grandmother has advised the lady to leave the marriage before she got killed.

They send someone to sleep with someone and this will make her husband to accused her of cheating because even when he touched her, she denied the intimacy. The lady is under threats and the person responsible for this is her mother in law who does not want her near her child.

They also want to harm her child as a way to hurt the mother. According to Thembi the child was not supposed to be born. They feel like the child is the one that is bringing light to the family. If they can’t go to Moseamedi they go to the child. Thembi told her that the hold need to be baptized for her to be strong.

What the grandmother did is strong because no witchcraft or spiritual war will harm both of them. She and the child is safe until she made the right decision which is to leave the marriage.

The aunt need to welcome her using chicken into their ancestors. The aunt need to introduce her to the step-fathers surname so that they can know her and to welcome her into the family.