The world has changed. People die at a rapid pace especially the young people, and it seems there’s nothing we can do about it because death comes unexpectedly and no one can stop it from taking any person’s life, be it a friend, family member, colleague or lover(s). …

 

 

 

 
With regard to lovers, a woman with the Twitter handle @n_hill911 took to the social networking app with a broken heart to announce that her boyfriend, the person she loved and shared so much with has passed on. The two were both doctors working at the same hospital, but things will never be the same now that the other one is no more.

The deceased was a very kind person who liked laughing and helping other people. People who knew him very well were also saddened by his passing. Some are having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that he’s no more.

What people said on Twitter :

“The way young people at dying is worrisome. We are being buried by our parents and grandparents instead of it being the other way around. I’m so sorry for your loss mommy. I honestly wish I had words to soothe your heart right now” – @BonoloAnne.

“Take it one step at a time. Don’t force it, cry, scream. It won’t be okay but it will ease the pain. Death affects us all. Memories won’t fade away. He is your angel now” – @SobantuWella.

The times you will miss your partner most are the special days the two of you shared. Since pain and loss can be greater during those times, it might help to be with someone else. Share your memories with friends, if you wish, but continue to honour the life you and your spouse shared by keeping a special place in your heart to celebrate and cherish your memories of togetherness.

Understand that you will never erase the loss, not completely, and that’s okay. In time you’ll learn to live with it, and there will even be days when you don’t think about it at all. There will also be days when the pain returns. It’s just part of life.