When you are a married woman, and keep saying your marriage does not define you, but at the same time keep doing things that will appear as if you are indeed defined by that marriage.

 

 

 

 

Thobile Mseleku, who is Musa Mseleku’s third wife, is also part of the Real House Wives of Durban season 2. Through out the season, viewers have been concerned about her style of dressing. They feel she is not being herself, and dressing up the way she does because of her husband, and his preferences.

On the episode that was uploaded today, she showed up at the beach set up, at the suncity valley of waves, dressed up like someone who was going for another kind of the event, and not the one that included water. It was puzzling, not just to viewers, but to those who were there with her too. She said she did not want to reveal her body to the world. However, viewers reminded each other that her husband once turned her back for coming out publicly wearing a legging. So on the intro of the show when she says her marriage doesn’t define her, she is actually lying.