Mseleku might have thought that he has it all figured out, but things have gotten so bad that it is becoming obvious that he is having a difficult time getting the family together.

Two of his wives have not made it easy on him and there is actually a reason as to why this is, one would say that he has not been doing what he is supposed to be doing as a man who is in a polygamous marriage.

 
One thing about Mseleku is that, he speaks out when he feels disrespected and he is quick to make an attempt to put his wives in their places.

Sometimes, he tends to do things in a way that favours him and it seems like he sees nothing wrong with that. One thing that was brought up by the fourth wife, MaNgwabe is that, Mseleku never acknowledges that he is to blame for some things.

And ever since this season started, MaNgwabe has maintained that Mseleku is not being fair to her and her sister wives, viewers can tell that the wives do not get along that well.

We cannot really say that it is entirely Mseleku’s fault that there is the disunity, but he is the one who contributes more to the problem as MaKhumalo mentioned. Now, MaKhumalo is another wife who has been vocal about a lot of things that have been happening in the family.

She said something very interesting during a discussion she had with her husband, she told him that his name came up a lot when she was with the other wives.

And what this means is that, whenever the wives would try to understand who the cause of the problem is, Mseleku’s name would come up way too often. MaKhumalo seems to get the timing right when she decides to raise a concern with her husband, but she is not usually the one who talks to Mseleku about the wrongs that he does.

MaNgwabe and MaYeni are the wives who do that a lot, even Mseleku knows it, he kind of expects that from them, but he probably does not expect that from MaKhumalo and MaCele.

In the latest episode, MaKhumalo and MaNgwabe did what some people wanted, the wives told Mseleku that he is also part of the problem, and he very well could be the cause of a lot of problems that they are faced with.

And Mseleku could not do anything about this, all he might have to do at this point is to allow his wives to guide him because they seem to have better solutions than he does. This is not a situation where the wives are going against Mseleku, but to Mseleku, it might be that way.