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his partner could witness his success. In an exclusive interview with DRUM the radio host and actor reveals a well of sadness behind his larger-than-life personality. He’s opening up about losing the man he’d hoped to marry.

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ربما تحتوي الصورة على: ‏‏شخص واحد‏، ‏‏جلوس‏‏‏

“I don’t know if I can love again,” he says. He met his late partner, Sipho Maluleka, after a friend picked him up at Joburg’s OR Tambo Airport in 2015. “My friend took me to a house session and I spotted him, all quiet and reserved, in the corner.” As the drinks started flowing Sipho mustered the courage to speak to Selbeyonce and asked him on a date.

“He said let’s go out for lunch tomorrow. I was playing hard to get But that didn’t stop Sipho, who worked in finance, from pursuing him. A few months later the two were dating and madly in love. “Funny thing is, Sipho didn’t know I was famous.” After dating for a year, marriage was on the cards, Selbeyonce told DRUM.ربما تحتوي الصورة على: ‏‏شخص واحد‏، ‏‏جلوس‏‏‏

“I love my partner and I’d like to get married some day and have my own family,” he said at the time (Radio’s perfect pair, 21 January 2016). But his dream of marrying his “amazing and kind” lover was dashed when Sipho was killed in a car crash in January this year. Selbeyonce had spoken to Sipho (29), who’d been driving his grandmother on an errand, two hours before the tragedy.

“All of a sudden I got a call saying he had died on the spot.” It’s been ten months since he lost the love of his life and Selbeyonce is still picking up the pieces.

“I’d never been loved like that. I was his first gay lover. He knew his sexuality. He said he wanted to express it with someone he really loves and that was me.” Sipho made Selbeyonce feel beyond special. “He sent me a text once asking me where I’d been all his life and that he couldn’t go a day without talking to me.”

Moving on is tough, he adds. “Sometimes I wake up and I drive to where he had the accident. It took me a long time to delete his number from my phone. I go through his Facebook profile often. I cry and I talk to him.” He also knows all the roads that lead to Sipho’s grave in the North Coast. “I drive to his grave and park at the graveyard.”